Equilibrium

Dear readers!
I had been thinking for a while now, what exactly are the conditions that bring us to sorrow even though we are so cautious at times not to make things go worse and handle the present situation more sensibly than we last did.

But there's always a force that drives us to crazy decisions. At the very moment, it may makes us feel that the decision we made was a catastrophic one! We must had not been in our right mind to decide that, but let me assure you, 90% of all the decisions taken in extreme conditions turn out to be beneficial for us or for our future. But there's one very important thing to remember: even if we have taken a decision that we ourselves do not approve of at that particular time, we need to be determined and stand by our own selves when nobody else is willing to support us. And that is when that driving force comes from within us and helps us stand by what we have done. This force can be named a whim, a rage or simply the strength to believe in ourselves!

This is to strike a balance/ an equilibrium in our life because we can not always be happy and satisfied even if we are provided with the finest of things in our life. We need to experience each and every extreme sentiment so that we can enjoy leisure after hectic tasks, pleasure after melancholy and solace after ambiguity.

So the same thing happened to me today, I was really outrageous at first when I decided on to something really significant in my life (up until now, at least) and then became regretful at the decision too. I knew this one was the hardest amongst all the decisions in my life as yet. I also knew that there would be no looking back from where I am going to stand after making this particular decision but I did (actually, without shedding a drop of tear) yupppee, bravo! ;) But yes, I did feel sad, really really sad! Here, I must mention that decisions taken in an emotional situation are more likely to make one sad than those taken in other situations but when you become the master of your emotions, you give a damn to what you feel! Because feelings makes you go irrational (if exceeded from a certain point/level, of course). And so today, I had a feeling of maturity.

Getting rid of insensible feelings, emotions, believes, stereo-types and people in your life does help you move toward a better position in your life. This is a step toward spiritual satisfaction. Of course, materialistically, you are not getting anything whilst getting rid of such absurdities but spiritually, you are! And that is more important too!